Friday, September 23, 2005


This is the blog link to my Save Gay Life website ( Save Gay Life is my own multimedia sex history, a brutally frank look at the thoughts and feelings behind the safe and unsafe choices I've made. I'm acutely aware that everyone's sex life is their own. So I can only speak for myself and about the guys I slept with. I've been a sexually immature 'Power Top' most of my life: I'm not big on intimacy. But intimacy is central to gay sexuality. Personally, the need for intimacy would not motivate me to take a lethal risk in bed. For someone else, it might. So I hope the blog can go beyond my own emotional vistas. If you want to, use the blog to 'check under the hood' of your own impulses and maybe gain insight into what makes you/us tick in bed.